One Year Later

A year ago I got down on one knee

At that moment the world faded

It was just me and you standing before me

I watched the tears fill your eyes

And also the wonder from the surprise 

I waited there in the sand 

Holding on to your hand 

Eternity passed as I looked to you

My heart beating hard in my chest 

At once all was well again, you said yes

A year later and I still find ways 

To love you more every single day

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Am I Sure… 

I was asked if I was sure I wanted to marry her… 

​I am 100% sure that I want to get married. With her, life is better. Nothing is easy, I know that, but she makes things feel simpler than they’ve ever been. I want to get married because I want to be able to proclaim the love that I have for her and through the process I can validate my love to her in the best way (opinion). I heard someone said today that they didn’t want to have a wedding, they wanted to have a marriage. They were afraid that they would do so much in having a ceremony that would forever outweigh the rest of their lives. I’ve never had that fear and although I understood where she was coming from, I didn’t waiver. I don’t have to be afraid of what’s to come because in my heart I know that we will love each other. I can’t predict the future and I haven’t been a great believer in faith, but my heart tells me that this time, I’m right. She is the one. The one woman my mother approved on sight. I love her and always will. 

Too Soon? 

​I don’t believe in Society’s implied time to go through stages. The biggest reason I’m marrying you “so fast” is because I’m certain. I’m certain that I love you with all of me. I’m certain that you know it. I’m certain that each and every morning, your face is the one that I want to wake up to. I’m certain that when things are going bad for me, you’re the person that I want in my corner picking me up and motivating me. I’m certain that I can give you the physical, mental, and emotional support that you may need from time to time. I’m certain that I want to start the rest of my life with you as soon as possible.

30 Day Challenge – Day 19

Day 19 – Discuss your views on divorce

Marriage is sacred.

I believe that divorce should be the last resort unless there’s abuse or infidelity. In those two cases, it’s clear that one person isn’t holding up their end of the deal.

Sometimes though, the love can also fade and people get tired of one another. Irreconcilable differences. If you no longer love one another, it’s ok to walk away. It’s often the case that those two people are better off as friends.

Marry the person you truly love. The one who makes you fall every day. Then, you’ll never have to worry about divorce.

Divorce hurts all involved in different ways, especially the children. That event lives with them their whole lives and haunts them sometimes as their fault.

I don’t ever want a divorce, so I’ll marry the person I love and I’ll keep communication my number one priority.

What are your views?

Return the One Thing

Years had past since they said I do

It had been long that he knew

She  was no longer the woman he married

The things that made him fall in love

Were no loner there

It was as though she had forgotten how to care

Every time she complained about

He changed just for her

He didn’t even recognize himself anymore

She had his heart

Yet he could not find hers

The rings

Now meant nothing

Forever had come to a close

Their own separate ways

They now had to go